I give him everything that he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally, but still he flirts with other girls and has sexy conversations with them. You’re making a whole lot of assumptions in your question…
You say that you give him everything he needs sexually, emotionally, physically and mentally. you’re basically saying that you’re his perfect dream girl.
Most men look at what they say as a sort of promise or commitment, even if it’s an emotionally based discussion.
However, he still he hasn’t said that he loves me and I’m starting to wonder.
He’s never introduced me to his family (who live out-of-state), but he’s introduced me to all of his close friends as his he loves you, but let’s talk about how men show love and the subject of men & love in general.
My point in all this is that if you believe that you’re meeting all his needs, you will be blind to areas where the relationship needs to grow.
If you want the relationship to move forward, find deeper areas where you can reach him and inspire him.
Why would he be having these sexy, flirtatious conversations with these other women?
I mean, all of his sexual needs are completely met by you, right? And all of his emotional needs are met by you, so it can’t be that he enjoys the ego boost of feeling desired by a woman…
To other guys, love is more casual and can change with the seasons.
And to others, it is far more serious than my interpretation of it – it is a single-minded commitment to lifelong partnership.
But let’s take a completely different side of this…
because I know there are women reading this thinking, “Why should a woman do for this flirtatious disrespectful pig of a man? Here’s the deal – you’re asking me this question because you do not find his behavior acceptable. A guy always knows a woman’s limit is measured by how much she’s willing to tolerate.
There are all sorts of conventional images of men showing love through giving gifts: roses, chocolates, stuffed animals, cards, etc but these are not necessarily signs of that is an excellent gauge of his love for you: his time.